My journey starts with a single step towards healing from the experiences I have had in my life. It isn't always pretty, but it is honest, candid, and cathartic. By telling my story, I am breaking 10 years of silence. Each step is a step towards exorcising the demons of my past, discussing the present state of things and moving forward to a hope filled future.
Thank you for joining me.
I watched an episode of Dateline NBC about the rape and murder of Kenia Monge and the rape, beating and attempted murder of Lydia Tillman. I watched their stories unfold and was in awe of Lydia's courage, strength, heart and her unbelievable capacity to forgive. At the sentencing of the monster who raped her, beat her so severely that she was unrecognizable even to her sister, and then tried to cover it all up by dousing her in bleach and setting her on fire, Lydia was able to do something extraordinary. Through a written statement delivered by her father, since, as a result of what happened to her, she had a stroke and still needed to learn how to speak again, Lydia Tillman forgave the man who did this to her. She said she no longer wanted to live with hate and anger in her heart. She chooses, instead, to live life through an acronym for her name: Live Your Days Inspired Anew (L.Y.D.I.A).
I am amazed and inspired by Lydia. She walked into the courtroom shortly after being …
I had started this
posting as something much different than what it has become. Since the verdict in the Steubenville, Ohio
rape case was handed down yesterday I feel that this is something that must be
addressed now, rather than later.
For those of you who
don’t know about this case, two high school football players, one 16 and one
17, were found guilty of the rape of a 16 year old girl. She was unconscious and unable to
consent. The town of Steubenville, Ohio
is the typical American small town, with its pride determined by the victories
of the high school football team. With
this pride came a town, complete with parents, who turned a blind eye to the
hard partying, drinking and wild lifestyles of the football players. Bartenders would serve these under age kids
and liquor stores would sell to them. There were no consequences for the behavior
of these players because they were the pride of the school and the focal point
of a town that had been hit hard by the economic do…